Hi Alexander,
Nice to hear from you. I've just been offered a full time job reverse-engineering ECUs. When I submitted my application, I included some links to this forum. The company was impressed by the work I did for you, so I should thank you for asking me to look at your ECU.

I don't know which type of select monitor the cartridge is from - I haven't seen it. My contact just emailed me the ROM dump. I assume he unsoldered the chip from the cartridge and read it with an EPROM programmer. It is from 1992, so I assume it is an early type.
The eavesdrop circuit should work with a 2 way switch. I will be very interested to hear your results. Please post any information you discover.
Phil.